Monday, December 07, 2009

18 Months Old and 4 Months Home!

For those of you here looking for the Christmas letter post, stay tuned. I'm having some problems with some of the pics but check back in a few days. In the meantime, who could complain about a Meili update?

Our girl is 18 months old today! Looks like Pearl Harbor day will be an easy way to remember Meili's half birthday from here on out. Everybody says it but it really is true: We can't believe that it has already been 4 months since she has been home and at the same time, it seems like she has been ours forever. Part of the miracle of adoption, I suppose.

The last 4 months (6 months really) have been an 'adventure' in our home. We are now broadcasting from the central gulf coast of Florida and how we got from there to here without medication is still a mystery to us (but I'll fill in the blanks with some catchup posts coming soon.) I only mention it now because it means that in the last 4 months, our little sweetie has had to adjust to a new home environment-twice. We left Tucson just under a month ago and lost most of the gains that we had made with Meili since bringing her home from China. She was back to screaming in the bathtub and not wanting anything to do with Daddy among other things. We are just now starting to see our happy girl emerge once again. It's been a rough ride for her and we have some work ahead of us but she is a smart, brave and strong little girl and she is going to be just fine.

Yesterday, Meili and I were hanging out in my room and I actually had the presence of mind to get the camera out. Here are some shots with a little bit of Meili 411 in between:

This is pretty typical Meili Grace above. She loves to rip her shoes and socks off, particularly when we are getting ready to head out the door. She is still using a bottle and lets me feed it to her, but most of the time she is using a sippy cup. I was ready to let her bottle feed until 2 just to give her the attachment time, but she was ready for a cup and I was ready to not have a bottle leak all over the car and house. :) She is drinking whole milk, usually with a packet of Carnation instant breakfast thrown in for some extra vitamins and calories. She's a bit of a picky eater-likes something one day, but not the next. In general, noodles are a hit but she considers bread more of a toy than a source of nutrition. She hasn't had an official weigh-in in a while but she is probably just at 18 pounds. Such a little thing!

This is the smile that melts my heart. I still think that Meili is much prettier in person than in any photo that I have seen of her but this one comes close to capturing my Meili Grace. She just finally started to get the idea of what a camera is for and will say 'cheese' when I get it out. Speaking of speech...Meili says over 30 words. For any 18 month old, that would be fabulous. When you consider that she has only been exposed to the English language for a little over four months, it's amazing! She can say mama (but shouts MOM! when she wants my attention), dada, Noah (wowah), baby, baba, up, Jackson (Jacksah), cheese, flower, diaper, stinky, dog, hi, and bye-bye to name a few. She has even said 'I love you' during a few diaper changes!

Here, I caught her during a giggle and you can see that she is sporting some more teeth. She came to us with 6 teeth and now has 10 including a couple of molars. Two more are following closely behind. We have the drool, snot and tears to prove it!


Now that she is walking (and running!) like a pro, Meili Grace is into everything. She is especially enthusiastic about all of the Christmas decorations around the house. She is a true girly-girl and likes anything that sparkles or shines. The tree has a barricade of chairs around it and anything breakable is out of Meili-reach. When she isn't making a mess, Meili likes to play with her 'babies,' play on the swings at the park across the street, and go for walks in her stroller through the neighborhood.

She's still fascinated by her belly button and so are we...we had to adopt a child to have one with an 'innie.' :) You can see in this picture that Meili can manage a size 12 months in pants only if the waist band is rolled down. Size 9 months fits the waist most of the time but is a little short in length. Unless we can find pants with the adjustable waist, she'll have to stick to leggings in the future. She is a skinny little thing!

We still can't believe that Meili is HOME to celebrate Christmas this year! I listened to the song 'Merry Christmas' by Third Day a few days ago. It still makes me cry, but for a different reason. We couldn't love our girl any more if she was born to us and and are so blessed to have her as a part of our family.

Update In the Works

Having technical difficulties with some pics...:(

Sunday, December 06, 2009

Meili's New Ride


After much deliberation, this contraption should be arriving in the next 7-10 days. It has everything that I've been looking for in a stroller-big tires for jogging/walking but a front tire with a swivel option for maneuvering while shopping, a snack/drink tray for Meili (so hard to find on a jog stroller), a drink/key holder for me (vital when half the time I'm walking to the corner store for a Diet Coke), extra storage under and behind for all of our gear, a bug net (never needed one of those until now), less than $150 and it's PINK! Our new neighborhood is designed for walking. Meili and I have been hitting the sidewalk 3+ times a day and our three-kid-old umbrella stroller just isn't cutting it anymore. Can't wait for the big box to arrive at the door-thank you, Santa!

Saturday, December 05, 2009

So, how's the house?

We are getting that question alot from friends and family. The short answer is that we love it. The long answer is that it was a short sale that was left vacant for a long time and there is a LOT of work to do. The good news is that things are cleaning up nicely. Turns out that dirt is actually a wonderful preservative and there's a beautiful house underneath all of this crap. I'm kicking myself for not taking before pictures of everything but think of this before picture of the pool as symbolic of the general state of neglect of the rest of the house. Yummy, isn't it?


I'd like to think of this after picture of the pool as a symbol of hope for the rest of the house. This picture was taken during a rain storm so it's actually much clearer now. I was looking out the window this morning and wondered what I was seeing on the bottom of the pool. It was the drain! Hadn't seen that before today. The kids were a little disappointed that there wasn't a gator in there afterall...

For our west coast family and friends, here's a new vocabulary word for you. The screened enclosure around the pool (to keep the bugs and critters out) is called a 'lanai.' New one for me.
Stay tuned. I'm going to try to post about each room in the house as they come together so you can see them if you are interested. It might give me some motivation to get going again too!

Thursday, October 08, 2009

Got Your Tickets Yet?

I don't think anybody that knows me will be surprised to know that I already have mine. If any local friends would like to join me, I'll be at the theater at the Foothills Mall on Wednesday, October 28th at 10:45 am. I'm thinking of also getting tickets to the 9pm show the night before so I can see the movie baby-free. If you show up to either, it should be easy to find me. I'll be the one in the front row weeping silently into my tub of popcorn...:)

Wednesday, October 07, 2009

Yep, what the shirt says...


Friday, October 02, 2009

Trouble.

Well, we knew it was only a matter of time but baby girl has discovered the stairs. Life will never be the same, at least until she learns how to come down...

Am I in trouble?
All the way to the top!

So proud of herself.



Contemplating getting down...

Shall I take a header???
No worries, we had a brief 'feet first, belly scoot' lesson. If that doesn't work, we'll try the 'sit down, get down' method.

Refueling after a good climb.

That's my girl!

Thursday, October 01, 2009

Playing is Serious Business


















Meili On the Go

When we met our sweet girl in China, she could sit up but was too overwhelmed with all of the changes in her life to do much else. Now, all that is beginning to change...

She's been crawling for quite a while, but is now comfortable enough to crawl away from Mom for short periods of time-a huge development!

About a month ago, she began to do this trick which we refered to as 'downward facing dog.'

To our surprise, she was not doing yoga but was trying to stand up in the center of the room!

Now, she is taking steps-about 10-15 at a time!

Apparently, climbing will be her next endeavor...

I just love this little person!

Hey, Ann-recognize the dress? :)

Where's Your...

Hair?

Eye? (wish she wouldn't point to her eye BALL but oh, well)


Nose?
She can also point to her teeth and her belly button (our favorite.) She is such a smart little girl. It is so fun to watch her learn and grow every day!